Please can someone tell me if it possible? mayb tmi?

ive recently discovered i can when my oris is stimulated but im getting frustrated as once my partner makes me c*m, i cant seem to do it again. he uses my vibrator and it nice but once i c*m my legs feel really horrible and tickly if that makes sense and i cant carry on to an . its starting to get me down a bit. does anyone know how to push myself through this weird feeling? and also i gush as well but i want to squirt it out? if anyone can tell me how to do one or the other or even both? please no silly answers. thanks.